One of the brightest highlights of the trip for me was getting to reconnect with two of my Alpha Phi Omega brothers from St. Francis. Although we've kept up with each other via Facebook, I haven't seen either one of them since 1985.
After my Capitol experience, I walked to Union Station to meet Bob outside of the Barnes & Noble store. I thought that this was very appropriate since one of the greatest things about Bob is how intelligent and well-read he is.
Before we met, he briefed me about a change in his life, so that I wouldn't be caught off guard. It seems that he suffered from Guillame-Barre Syndrome about ten years ago and was paralyzed for 9 months. His walk is now labored and assisted by a walker, but his wit was as sharp as ever. We talked about our jobs and families. He has two boys, one of them has Asbergers syndrome. I was struck by the fact that despite the very serious and real hurdles he's faced since we last met, his optimism and joy for life is as radiant today as it was in our college years.
He talked with me about my writing, which is one of the things he remembered and admired most about me. Those remarks inspired me to do more of it. He now works as a research librarian for the Department of Transportation-- perfect job for me. He delighted me with personal Kennedy stories-- rides on the train with Rory and talks with her often. He also mentioned that he sat near Ted Kennedy often at Mass and shook his hand during the Rite of Peace. Wow.
I went directly from my visit with Bob to a short distance away, where I met Gerry in Chinatown. He took me to an Irish bar there. Again, much conversation about our lives and families. He's still very into liturgical music, as is his son. Other than the grey in his hair and beard, he looks the same. Laughed a lot about pledging Alpha Phi Omega-- a slutty gal in our circle (who shall remain nameless), hell night, air band, etc.). He works now as an IT resource for the FBI. Yes, he knows secrets.
It was so wonderful to see these dear friends and I'm looking forward to meeting their families on my next visit.
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